WDVF Schools Domestic Violence Prevention Project

The Aims of this Project

• To reduce the chances of young people being in abusive relationships
• To support young people living with domestic violence
• To support schools in responding to domestic violence
• To teach young people to challenge stereotypes and the tolerance of abuse
• To help young people resolve conflict in a positive way
• To contribute towards creating safe, healthy communities

 

How Does Domestic Violence Impact on Children?

In 90% of domestic violence cases, children are in the same or next room.
(Hamner 1990)

One third of children living with violence will try to protect an abused parent and they are at much higher risk of being directly abused. The impacts are complex and far reaching; children may face great confusion, torn loyalties, emotional distress, neglect and fear.
Leaving a violent home, children may be out of school or at a new school and feeling loss, deprivation and isolation. They may have to live in insecure, shared accommodation and they may be at further risk of harm through contact with an abusive parent.

“Children are suffering because of what you are doing to their mum. They are frightened and sad because they are different and not like other children who have happy homes. Violence is no way to solve problems – it doesn’t work. Don’t give this example to your children. They are frightened of you, even though they may love you.”
(Child aged 14, ‘Stop Hitting Mum!’ Audrey Mullender et al 2003)

‘It is widely accepted that there are dramatic and serious effects of children witnessing domestic violence, which often result in behavioural issues, absenteeism, ill health, bullying, anti-social behaviour, drug and alcohol misuse, self-harm and psychosocial impacts. Growing up in a violent household is also a major factor in predicting delinquency.’
(Safeguarding Children in Education, DfES, 2004)

The Children’s Act 2004 expanded the definition of
‘Significant harm’ to include witnessing domestic violence.


What do Young People think?

In a survey of teenage girls 43% said it was acceptable for a boyfriend to get aggressive. Over 40% felt they would consider giving a boyfriend a second chance if he hit them.
(Sugar magazine and NSPCC on-line survey – 2005)

1 in 2 young men and 1 in 3 young women said it was okay to hit a woman or force her to have sex in some circumstances. 1 in 8 young men agreed that ‘nagging’ justified violence.
(Zero Tolerance Trust Survey, 16-20 year olds, 1998)

In a survey of young men and women, 42% knew girls whose boyfriends had hit them. 59% felt they did not have enough information to advise victims.
(End Violence Against Women Campaign On-line Poll, 16-20 year olds, 2006)

This shows a clear need to work with young people to challenge such tolerance, to provide the right information and guidance.


Supporting Schools

• WDVF Schools Development Officer: ensuring a school-led approach and sustained support
WDVF nationally acclaimed resource Schools Pack and Video / DVD:
providing you with useful information and domestic violence prevention work suitable for all key stages
• Curriculum links: supporting PSHCE, Citizenship, English, RE learning outcomes
• The 2004 Children’s Act: supporting schools in early intervention and joint working
• Every Child Matters: supporting schools to achieve the five outcomes
Social and Emotional Aspects of Learning (SEAL): direct links to the programme
• Child Protection: supporting schools’ responsibilities
• Healthy Schools: helping achieve healthy school status
• Ofsted: supporting schools’ duty to promote moral, spiritual and social development

How Does the Project Work?

Stage 1: Domestic violence awareness training for the whole school staff team. This covers the impact on children and young people and the role of the school in responding to and preventing domestic violence.
Stage 2: Planning with lead teachers and the WDVF Schools Development Officer to prepare a scheme of work that suits the school. This will include the Westminster Schools Pack as well as other resources and activities.
Training for teaching staff to introduce the resources and activities
Stage 3: Ongoing support and evaluation from the WDVF Schools Development Officer.


The training can take place during INSET or twilight sessions.

Feedback

What teachers say….
• “I think children have the right to get this information. I have plenty of time to fit this issue into the national curriculum, and the pack gives me the tools to do it.”
• “We see less and less bullying and violence in the school as a result of doing this work in the classroom.”
• The project is “essential, apart from a domestic situation, schools have the most regular contact.”

What young people tell us….
• “I learnt that friendships are important and you need to treat each other well.”
• “I liked doing the drama about feelings.”
• “I learnt that if someone is being bullied or upset I can do something to help them.”


For information on the schools project, contact Daisy Rothwell,
WDVF Schools Development Officer:
Telephone: 020 7229 0333 Email: daisy.rothwell@nch.org.uk

Help for Young People

Local organisations in Westminster

Victim Support Westminster
- Offers support to victims of crime
- Young person’s service available
Tel: 020 7828 4142
Address: 1 Aylesford Street, Pimlico, SW1V 3RY
www.victimsupport.org.uk

The Haven, Paddington
- Offers practical, medical and emotional support to victims of sexual assault
- Young person’s service available
Tel: 020 7886 1101 (9am-5pm) 020 7886 6666 (All other times)
Address: St Mary’s Hospital, Praed Street, W2 1NY
www.thehavens.org.uk

Connexions

- Personal Advisors offer young people information, advice and support on all sorts of issues
Address: Stowe One Stop Shop @ the Stowe Centre, 258 Harrow Road, W2 5ES
Tel: 0845 077 0779
Address: Pimlico One Stop Shop @ Morgan House, Lillington Gardens Estate, Pimlico Village, SW1V 2LF
Tel: 020 7641 2069
www.centrallondonconnexions.org.uk

National Organisations, Helplines and Websites

Childline

0800 1111 - Free national helpline offering counselling and advice to children and young people
www.childline.org.uk

Get Connected

0808 808 4994 - Free national helpline offering information, advice help with finding local support
www.getconnected.org.uk

Support Line
020 8554 9004 – Helpline offers confidential emotional support to children, young people and Adults on many issues including domestic violence
www.supportline.org.uk/problems/domesticViolence.php#

Muslim Youth Helpline
0808 808 2008 - Provides culturally sensitive support to Muslim youth under the age of 25.
www.myh.org.uk

NSPCC Child Protection Helpline

0808 800 5000 – Free helpline for anyone concerned about the safety or wellbeing of a child

NSPCC Asian Child Protection Helpline
0800 096 7719

www.thehideout.org.uk
Information for young people living with or concerned about violence at home

www.there4me.com
Information and confidential on-line advice on all sorts of issues for 12 -16 year olds

www.worriedneed2talk.org.uk
Guidance and information for young people around concerns and who to talk to

www.girlsallowed.org
Advice and information for girls on relationships

www.ruthinking.co.uk

Advice for young people on sexual issues and relationships